If you are currently dissatisfied, what's the downside to making changes? There are a lot of reasons why we don't change. Mostly they have to do with fear. We fear losing standing or losing face if we admit weakness, and change is seen as admitting weakness, a fact that makes no sense yet consumes us … Continue reading Principle #45: Why Not Change?
Most people have at least two voices, often competing ones. We have internal debate. We have the "little voice in my head," and we have "me". The "me" is the Big Me. The one that others see, the one that takes action, makes speeches, plans practices and leads the team. Little Me is the internal … Continue reading Big Me, Little Me